The intention of love
In the reader's official website has two articles. One is the "post-modern future daughter-in-law to the letter," there is a "History of the cattle for the future daughter-my mother's letter", read these two articles very interesting feeling. Do not say the contents could literally see the light should be very unique. Should also attract a lot of attention. Otherwise it will not be posted on the home page.
Said that her mother first. What a powerful role. Intellectuals, forward-thinking, sharp words the mind clear. Surface camouflage well. But the eyes of the heart was only their family, the daughter-handed clean. This can not help but angry. So I read a curious, does no one come out to challenge you. Really did not expect someone to write. Really found it. Can not wait to read her mother, a daughter given the "challenge book."
It began, "from the letter read, and by the pernicious influence of feudal compared against many of her mother, you have improved a lot, so it has been called 'popular', 'sensible', 'common sense' and the like down the house. But I have made it clear that you to this in the eyes of many 'very open' letter, is still relatively strong feudal contains color! "I see here a long breath comfortable. With the mother how to how to be a daughter. This is to protect "family" and co. A strong and weak, there will be a weak and a strong party injured, which will give the middleman the son who brought distress. It will also dull boring days.
Here is the text, and the daughter of her mother that the content organized into a few points. Then one by one comment, one by one to refute. Expression and words is very focused and lethal effect. The entire article from the point of view, the theory seems to completely overthrow the mother. Daughter'd better. As my mother and other women have not as fellow citizens, it should be complacent. Is a happy thing. But the reason I want readers to be published this article. Purpose is not to argue with the outcome. But from this understanding of how to deal with the relationship between mother-and daughter.
In modern society, a wife after 80 mostly single women, children, personality and economic independence. The face of her mother's "played rough", may find it hurts. How to deal with the right attitude, a way to appropriately express their own thoughts, is the daughter of a modern embodiment of the cultivation and wisdom. After you choose this man is single-handedly brought up her mother to him, her mother a little more understanding and tolerance, not only to respect their elders, is also very important to maintain marital relations "magic"! The same as a modern mother. There should not be backward feudal thinking, should not be a xenophobic daughter, after all, your son is to marry the girl back with him to spend his life to take care of the people in his life, his son is your baby. But you can not life with him, take care of her life, you always have to leave that day. So to his son, and daughter more care and love, so that families can be happy, be harmonious. This is the true meaning of the expression of the reader so.
This is under conditions of equality with peace. But I think society still has a lot of people together under the conditions of inequality of life. Children come into this world, not the child's choice, but parental choice, and when parents make the choice to know the child is not viable. Therefore, their children and be responsible only for their own choices, parents fair share of things! The love of parents and children is based on an equal footing in terms of personality. Children obey their parents not to "owed, and feedback" approach to performance. But in gratitude to repay. Of course, most important, his son and daughter have their own parents. If the parties can not "ask some questions." So each had themselves to be taken for granted. Their parents pay their children's love is selfless. No reason for anyone, no right to intervene and force any party to better their own parents, their parents love more.
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